Writing

“Your Mother Is A Whore: On Sex Work and Motherhood,” The Establishment

Published: July 18, 2018

Despite the fact that society portrays motherhood as incongruent with sex work — scrutinizing our judgement and credibility — sex working mothers continue to parent our kids in a way that is not only appropriate, but radical in its power to destabilize these narratives and destigmatize our work for future generations. In other words, sex working mothers are at the front lines of a radical sexual politics, as these front lines begin in our own homes.

 

“Your Mother Is A Whore: On Sex Work and Motherhood,” The Establishment

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“Selling Used Panties Online Is Harder Than You Think,” VICE’s Motherboard

March 18, 2019

Sex workers told Motherboard about the economics and emotional labor that go into selling panties online.

“LoveSync: When Sextech Can’t Save Us,” Cyborgology

February 21, 2019

In addition to contributing to Cyborgology, I write a sex column for the Pittsburgh City Paper. This week, I wrote a piece that’s relevant to conversations here, titled, “A new Kickstarter campaign has a terrible solution to your relationship problems.”

I look at LoveSync, a new technology aimed at helping couples with mismatched libidos, and argue it’s an example of how technological solutions to social or interpersonal problems can do more harm than good.

“Is the Concept of Virginity Outdated?” On Our Moon

January 28, 2019

One doesn’t have to reflect much on the way that virginity is defined to see that much of the emphasis is on the power of the penis. Specifically, the penis’s power to transform cis-women’s bodies.